Have They No Decency?
Posted: March 25, 2012 Filed under: 2012 primaries, abortion rights, birth control, Civil Liberties, Democratic Politics, Feminists, fetus fetishists, Hillary Clinton, Human Rights, Planned Parenthood, PLUB Pro-Life-Until-Birth, Religious Conscience, religious extremists, Republican politics, Women's Healthcare, Women's Rights 15 CommentsWomen across the US, even the world have reacted to the steady Republican assault on women’s reproductive rights. There’s no end to the craziness.
For the GOP’s ‘official’ stance? They categorically deny a ‘War on Women.’ Rush Limbaugh went so far to say that the ‘feminazi’s’ don’t really care about his comments on Sandra Fluke. They merely want to make a stink and attack him and his wildly successful radio show.
A conspiracy against the Premier Ditto Head. Poor baby.
Strangely enough, I agree with the GOP argument. This is not a War. It’s a Holy Crusade to chip away, dismantle and destroy all vestiges of gains made by women since the Griswold and subsequent Row v Wade decisions. Glenn Beck’s vicious attacks on Margaret Sanger make perfect sense now. Defame and kill the root, the mother of Planned Parenthood, and you bring down the whole tree, destroying the fruits of Sanger’s effort: universal birth control, sexual education [the earlier the better] and freedom for women to control their own lives and destinies.
Make no mistake, this Crusade has been making headway, which has emboldened the zealots in making increasingly outlandish suggestions and demands.
Terri Proud, an Arizona state representative is a fine example.
Most of us have read about Arizona’s proposed HB2625, a bill that would give employers ‘of conscience’ the right to insist a woman obtain a written doctor’s note, proving she’s using birth control for non-sexual reasons. Otherwise, she could be fired. But wait! There’s more. Arizona’s HB2036 would make sweeping changes to abortion, outlawing abortion after 20 weeks based on . . . fetal pain. Representative Proud, obviously caught up in self-righteous fever, answered a constituent’s request that she vote down HB2036 thusly:
Personally I’d like to make a law that mandates a woman watch an abortion being performed prior to having a “surgical procedure”. If it’s not a life it shouldn’t matter, if it doesn’t harm a woman then she shouldn’t care, and don’t we want more transparency and education in the medical profession anyway? We demand it everywhere else. Until the dead child can tell me that she/he does not feel any pain – I have no intentions of clearing the conscience of the living – I will be voting YES.
So, in addition to requesting that note from your doctor, if you do get pregnant [you wanton slut] and want an abortion– only before the 20-week deadline, of course–Representative Proud would, in her withered zealot’s heart, demand you watch someone else’s abortion. How perfectly twisted. And I so-o-o love the arrogance of this reply. Representative Proud has no intentions of clearing the conscience of the living. La-de-dah. God is on the premises!
Who are these people? More importantly, who do these people think they are?
Well, for one thing they’re cowards. Because when Proud was called out on this response, she claimed it was a Democratic Gotcha Game.
Remember, these were her words, her email but somehow this is a ‘gotcha’ moment. Sound familiar? Poor old Rush smells a set up, too, even though it was his three-day, on-air excoriation of Sandra Fluke that initiated the media firestorm and subsequent advertising retreat.
The Grand Inquisitors morph into sniveling crybabies once exposed to the light.
The list of offensive anti-women assaults just keep coming. Alan Dick [appropriate surname], a state representative of Alaska has suggested ‘paternal permission’ for abortion approval. Reportedly, he has stated:
If I thought that the man’s signature was required … in order for a woman to have an abortion, I’d have a little more peace about it.
Obviously a woman cannot make this decision on her own. She needs the signature of the impregnator to make it official so Representative Dick can have peace of mind. Might get a bit dicey if said impregnation was the result of rape or incest. A similar bill was proposed [and shot down] in Ohio in 2009. A paternal permission rule would make non-permission abortions a crime.
Pennsylvania entered the fray recently. Governor Tom Corbett signed an abortion ultrasound mandate and said as long as it was on the ‘exterior’ as opposed to the ‘interior,’ he was right as rain with the bill. As for insisting that women watch? “You just have to close your eyes,” he quipped with a smile. Pennsylvania’s bill requires doctors to perform the ultrasound, offer patients two copies of the image and describe the fetal heartbeat in detail before performing a requested abortion. Which is still legal, btw.
As maddening as these particular examples are, the far more serious overview comes from the Guttmacher Institute:
Over the course of 2011, legislators in all 50 states introduced more than 1,100 provisions related to reproductive health and rights. At the end of it all, states had adopted 135 new reproductive health provisions—a dramatic increase from the 89 enacted in 2010 and the 77 enacted in 2009.1 Fully 92 of the enacted provisions seek to restrict abortion, shattering the previous record of 34 abortion restrictions enacted in 2005. A striking 68% of the reproductive health provisions from 2011 are abortion restrictions, compared with only 26% the year before.
Several states adopted relatively new types of abortion restrictions in 2011. Five states (Alabama, Idaho, Indiana, Kansas and Oklahoma) followed Nebraska’s lead from the year before and enacted legislation banning abortion at 20 weeks from fertilization (which is equivalent to 22 weeks from the woman’s last menstrual period), based on the spurious assertion that a fetus can feel pain at that point in gestation. And for the first time, seven states (Arizona, Kansas, Nebraska, North Dakota, Oklahoma, South Dakota and Tennessee)—all largely rural states with large, scarcely populated areas—prohibited the use of telemedicine for medication abortion, requiring instead that the physician prescribing the medication be in the same room as the patient. Telemedicine is increasingly looked to as a way to provide access to health care, especially in underserved rural areas.
The chart below gives you a chilling visual on what’s been going on:
Despite the evidence, there are conservative writers insisting that the War/Crusade Against Women has been hatched by nefarious Democrats. Another devious conspiracy!
Sabrina Schaeffer for instance wrote that the ‘war on women’ narrative is risky business for the Democrats because Republicans managed to close the gender gap in 2010, the first time in 20 years. Ms. Schaeffer might take another look. The most recent recent polls indicate Democrats opening a 15-point lead with likely female voters. Schaeffer wrote:
But the effort by the White House to position Republicans as openly hostile to women is not only absurd, but also doomed to be a failed strategy. President Obama and Democrats have tried to create a caricature of conservatives in which opposition to the Health and Human Services “contraception mandate” means Republicans are trying to take away women’s birth control and reverse gender roles 50 years.
While this may play to their feminist base, it’s destined to fail with female voters at large. Contrary to what groups like NOW suggest, women today are not interested in playing identity politics; . . .
I agree on one point. Women are not interested in playing identity politics on issues we thought resolved two generations ago. However, unless Rick Santorum is secretly a Democrat, I see neither evidence that he was forced into his rigid Morality Police posture [that would be on your knees] nor that he was set up for a gotcha moment. Nor do I see any proof that the other ‘go along to get along’ candidates had a gun at their heads while taking equally outrageous positions. Only Ron Paul has deferred [for the moment] on the major communal female bashing.
Then there were those grand, unforgettable moments: Congressman Issa’s panel convened to discuss contraception, a panel devoid of women; the Blunt Amendment; the witch hunts on Planned Parenthood.
Sorry, these wounds were self-inflicted, clear cannon blasts to the foot.
That’s not ignoring how the Democrats have happily, even giddily taken full advantage of the GOP’s gender tone deafness. It’s been a gift since the Administration was, in fact, losing support among women [the Stupak Amendment, weaseling on Plan B availability for young girls, tossing Elizabeth Warren under the bus, etc.]. Women have ‘suddenly’ become attractive entities with an election looming. Quelle surprise! Yet the Republicans are doing the heavy lifting for the WH, voluntarily hemorrhaging female votes with their nonstop fixation on our sexual parts and what we do with them.
The ‘why’ of this furor remains a mystery. Yes, the GOP seems to be pandering to the religious right in all their insane glory. Some commenters have suggested [and this has absolutely crossed my mind], the GOP wants to blow the election. Or perhaps, they’re inciting the attacks to appeal to those men who resent autonomous women, who dream of the good ole days, the sepia-tinged era of Leave It To Beaver, where Mother dusted the house in high heels, pearls and matching sweater sets. And Dad, of course, was the font of undisputed wisdom. One blogger suggested this might be the Republicans’ idea of a jobs program—put women back in the kitchen, thereby opening the job market to unemployed men.
Whatever the Republican reasoning, it appears to be backfiring. But the election season is young [it just seems pointless and endless]. Still, if I hear one more story on transvaginal probing, zygote personhood or paternal permission slips, I might take out a full-page ad in the NYT, reading:
Have you no decency, Gentleman. At long last, have you left no sense of decency?
Or anything remotely resembling sanity!
Open Thread: Regulating Men’s Reproductive Health Choices
Posted: March 11, 2012 Filed under: fetus fetishists, Republican politics, U.S. Politics, War on Women, Women's Healthcare, Women's Rights | Tags: anti-abortion bills, erectile dysfunction drugs, impotence, mandatory ultrasound bills, Men's reproductive health, sexism misogyny, Viagra 23 CommentsLast week Ohio State Senator Nina Turner introduced state bill 307, which would require men to have several sessions with a sex therapist, a cardiac stress test, and obtain a notarized statement from their sexual partners saying they are really impotent before they could get a prescription for Viagra or any other “erectile dysfunction” drug. In addition, doctors prescribing the drugs would have to notify the patient in writing of all their possible side effects, and all documentation, including the statement from the man’s sexual partner would be kept in his medical records. From the Cleveland Plain Dealer:
Turner says she also wants to rally women across the country to push for similar bills in their states.
“It’s not a joke,” Turner told The Plain Dealer this week. “I’m dead serious. I want to continue this strong dialogue about what is fair and what is equal.”
“It is crucial that we take the appropriate steps to shelter vulnerable men from the potential side effects of these drugs,” she said in a written statement.
“The men in our lives, including members of the General Assembly, generously devote time to fundamental female reproductive issues. The least we can do is return the favor.”
Furthermore, Turner is concerned about the serious side effects of ED drugs:
“The side effects of these drugs are very real,” she told The Plain Dealer. “I want to [protect] fragile men who are vulnerable and are not able to make decisions for themselves.”
Turner says her bill is based on medical recommendations for the use of these powerful drugs::
Under Senate Bill 307, men taking the drugs would continue to be tested for heart problems, receive counseling about possible side effects and receive information about “pursuing celibacy as a viable lifestyle choice.”
“Even the FDA recommends that doctors make sure that assessments are taken that target the nature of the symptoms, whether it’s physical or psychological,” Turner said. “I certainly want to stand up for men’s health and take this seriously and legislate it the same way mostly men say they want to legislate a woman’s womb.”
In Illinois, State Senator Kelly Cassidy has proposed an amendment to a state sponsored rape bill bill requiring ultrasounds for women seeking abortions. The amendment would require any man who asks for a prescription for Viagra to “watch a graphic video on the side effects” of the drug first. From HuffPo:
“If they’re serious about us not being about to make our own health care decisions, then I’m just as serious about them not being able to make theirs,” she told HuffPost on Monday….
Cassidy is one of a string of female lawmakers across the country who have introduced gender-equity amendments to anti-abortion bills. Wilmington, Del. City Councilwoman Loretta Walsh authored a resolution that declares “each ‘egg person’ and each ‘sperm person’ … equal in the eyes of the government.” Oklahoma Sen. Constance Johnson (D) proposed a “spilled semen” amendment to the state’s fetal personhood bill that would declare it an act against unborn children for men to waste sperm. Va. Sen. Janet Howell (D), meanwhile, introduced an amendment to a mandatory ultrasound bill that would require men to have a rectal exam before being prescribed Viagra.
Women Of Courage
Posted: March 11, 2012 Filed under: abortion rights, Feminists, Festivities, fetus fetishists, Hillary Clinton: Her Campaign for All of Us, Human Rights, Violence against women, War on Women, Women's Healthcare, Women's Rights 9 CommentsTo read the biographies of this year’s recipients of the Women of Courage awards is nothing short of inspiring. These are women who have put
their lives and futures on the line to improve the quality of life for others, most specifically women and girls in parts of the world where to be female is extraordinarily difficult, even life-threatening. These are women who would make our Bread and Roses mavens proud, infuse enough energy to conjure those slumbering spirits for another boisterous rally, another yelp for dignity and freedom.
Maryam Durani, a member of the Provencial Council, Kandahar, Afghanistan was one of ten women cited and honored last Thursday in a ceremony, hosted by First Lady Michelle Obama and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton. Here’s a wee bit of her story:
Afghanistan as we all know is not an oasis of women’s liberation. But Ms. Durani has pitched herself against the traditional Afghani sensibility, standing as a role model and leader in a country of ancient tribal traditions and strict paternalistic mindsets. She is the director of the nonprofit Women’s Center for Culture and owns and operates a radio station, which focuses on informing women of their rights. And the inherent risks of demanding those rights.
She should know. A suicide bomber nearly ended her life, leaving her with serious injuries. The death threats haven’t stopped. Yet, she persists as do the women she serves because in a world where women, by virtue of their gender are considered the enemy, a threat by merely existing as autonomous human beings, there is only one response: fight back.
Here is Secretary of State Hillary Clinton introducting Ms. Durani during the Awards Ceremony last week:
Many of the women honored this year and in the past have put themselves on the frontline, encountering serious security threats to themselves and their families. They are not the first and sadly, they won’t be the last. The complete list of awardees can be found here.
In January 2011, many people were horrified when the body of Susana Chavez was discovered in a shallow grave. Chavez, a young poet activist, gave voice to the disappeared women in Juarez, Mexico, nearly 800 women at the time, only to be ‘disappeared’ herself. She was later found tortured, strangled, her body mutilated.
What was her offense?
She would not stop questioning, haranguing, annoying public officials for their inadequate investigations into the deaths of so many women. She was making trouble because she gave voice to those who had no voice, often no identity because their bodies had been disfigured, disposed of, forgotten.
Chavez refused to forget. She refused to be silent. Giving voice to the abuse of others seems to be a constant thread in all these stories.
In addition to the official US awards, PEN International remembered the murdered women writers of Mexico, eleven murders in 2011, five of whom were women. Since 2006, forty-five writers/journalists/bloggers have been murdered or disappeared because of their investigative/ activist work.
Susana Chavez is on the PEN International list. So is Yolanda Ordaz de la Cruz, the mother of two and a veteran crime/political reporter. She was abducted by gunmen in front of her home, only to be later found decapitated. The message is clear: remain silent or this could be you.
Threats, torture, rape, imprisonment and murder is too often the fate of women who will not be silent, who refuse to get with programs that would restrain and silence them and their sisters. And yet, like Maryam Durani and others, they persist. They refuse to back down.
We have our own homegrown fight in the United States, those who would roll back a woman’s right to direct her reproductive life, choose her own destiny. Here the punishment is humiliation, censor, scorn, name-calling, legislative measures to equate a woman’s fully realized life with that of a zygote, even the willingness to probe a woman’s decision-making process [because authoritarians find women incapable of ‘right-minded’ action, otherwise known as ‘their way or the highway’].
In all these efforts, the purpose is to demean, limit, control, even eliminate women because the Daughters of Eve are traditionally viewed as a danger, a threat to the status quo. There’s a reason Lilith is rarely mentioned. She was wa-a-ay too uppity.
But here’s the thing: even for those of us not facing mortal danger, we can have an impact by the way we live our lives, support other women, raise our daughters and sons and in the way we give voice to those who have pushed back against female abuse in all its forms, here and around the world, past and present.
Because to quote Hillary Clinton’s famous line: Women’s Rights are indeed Human Rights. Our quest should be to fulfill Susana Chavez’s words: Ni Una Mas. Ni Una Mas.
Not One More.
Dueling Op-Eds And the Great Divide
Posted: February 26, 2012 Filed under: birth control, Congress, Elizabeth Warren Campaign, fetus fetishists, fundamentalist Christians, PLUB Pro-Life-Until-Birth, Scott Brown, The DNC, the GOP, War on Women, Women's Healthcare, Women's Rights 13 CommentsIt will be a fine fight for the Senate seat in Massachusetts and the lead up is not disappointing. The Horse Race is now turning into a duel at thirty
paces.
Elizabeth Warren offered the first volley, making her position clear on the contentious dispute over women’s access to contraception under the Healthcare Reform Act. She stated in no uncertain terms that exclusionary waivers for contraception access were outrageous. She supports President Obama’s compromise and expressed shock at Scott Brown signing onto the Blunt amendment that would allow employers deny coverage for ‘moral or religious reasons.’ Speaking to Greg Sargent last week she said:
This is an extreme attack on every one of us. It opens the door to outright discrimination. It would let insurance companies and corporations cut off pregnant women, overweight guys, older Americans, or anyone — because some executive claims it’s part of his moral code. Maybe that wouldn’t happen, but I don’t want to take the chance.
Neither do I.
But even if the language in the Blunt amendment were airtight, I’d oppose it and find the suggestion totally unacceptable. I pay taxes for wars for which I was never consulted and absolutely disagree with. That’s against my moral code. Can I get a tax refund now? I also think giving vulture oil companies subsidies is a ludicrous and immoral practice. Another refund? Oh, and those Wall Street bankers, the greed, the fraud that American taxpayers got stuck for? I want my money back, now.
We can all play this opt-out game.
So, where does Scott Brown come down on the question of women’s healthcare? Quelle surprise! He’s rubberstamping the irrational GOP position. But by doing so, he takes a 180-degree spin from his 2002 vote, when he supported a mandate on contraception, the Church be damned! Nonetheless, his answer to Warren? Through spokesman, Colin Reed:
It’s elitist for Elizabeth Warren to dictate to religious people about what they should believe and how they should act. She wants to use the power of government to force Catholics to violate the teachings of their faith. That is wrong. This issue deals with one of our most fundamental rights as a people — the freedom of religion. Like Ted Kennedy, Scott Brown supports a religious conscience exemption in health care.
Nice going, Mr. Brown. It’s wrong today but wasn’t wrong in 2002. The political winds must have been blowing differently a decade ago. And we’re conjuring up the ghost of Teddy Kennedy? Shame on you. But what I really like is the word ‘elitist,’ which is the Republican/Fox News buzzword for ‘those snooty people, who are not real Americans.’ Real Americans drive a truck like Scott Brown–back and forth to a home in Wrentham valued between $1-2.3 million.
Yup, just like average folks!
Lest we forget, there’s a reason Scott Brown was named by Forbes magazine as one of “Wall Street’s favorite senators.”
To be fair, Elizabeth Warren is no financial slouch. Both Warren and Brown have done extremely well for themselves. They’re both lawyers, educated, well-heeled professionals, standing on either side of the Great Divide we call politics. The issue of contraception has been put into play, an issue that according to all polls marks Warren’s position as the undisputed winner.
The Boston Globe ran Dueling Op-Eds on the issue. Warren’s editorial is here.
She starts with that withering image of the Republican panel that Representative Issa managed to convene—a panel of five poker-faced, middle-aged men discussing contraception and religious rights. In the optics department it was a devastating image. Out of touch much? A prime female health consideration and you fail to have women on the panel? Says everything we need to know on the Republican mindset. Elizabeth Warren then takes Scott Brown to task not only for supporting the proposed Blunt bill but fighting to get it passed.
If you are married and your employer doesn’t believe married couples should use birth control, then you could lose coverage for contraception. If you’re a pregnant woman who is single, and your employer doesn’t like it, you could be denied maternity care. This bill is about how to cut coverage for basic health care services for women.
Let’s be clear what this proposed law is not about: This is not about Catholic institutions or the rights of Catholics to follow their faith. President Obama has already made sure religious institutions will not be forced to cover contraception – at the same time that he has made sure women can get the health care they need directly from their health care insurers. Carol Keehan, the president and CEO of Catholic Health Association, said that Obama’s approach “protects the religious liberty and conscience rights of Catholic institutions.
And Scott Brown’s answer: It’s a matter of fundamental fairness. Really?
Here’s the beginning of Brown’s statement:
The new ObamaCare mandate forcing religious organizations to offer insurance coverage for practices that violate the teachings of their church gives the government control over the most personal aspects of our lives. It also erodes one of the basic protections of the Constitution – the right to practice religion without government interference.
The federal government is now saying to religious hospitals and charities, “Just do what you’re told, and leave the moral questions to us.’’ This over-reaching dictation from Washington is one reason I opposed and voted to repeal ObamaCare.
Which, of course, fails to answer the earlier question: why was a mandate A-okay in 2002, yet oh so wrong now? Possibly because then it concerned RomneyCare. The name makes all the difference in the world! Interesting, too, that according to Think Progress:
Brown also voted for a 2005 bill mandating hospitals to offer emergency contraception to rape victims, even after lawmakers defeated his amendment to allow religious hospitals to opt out of the requirement. Brown split with then-Gov. Mitt Romney on the matter and joined the legislature in overriding his veto.
And the American public? The polling numbers on the issue of contraception and subsequent WH compromise are revealing:
Obama’s compromise takes this politically charged issue off the table for mainstream Americans, most of whom side with Obama. A Fox News poll conducted last week before Obama’s Friday announcement found that 61 percent of voters believe employer health plans should be required to cover birth control for women, while 34 percent disagreed. Among women, two thirds approved of the requirement.
Rush Limbaugh may scoff at the issue. But for women? This is a very big deal. Because birth control means reaching this point in our lives:
When we’re ready.
And Mr. Brown? You’re not only a hypocrite on the issue, you’re definitely on the wrong side of history.
Apologies And Cockroaches
Posted: February 24, 2012 Filed under: abortion rights, birth control, Feminists, fetus fetishists, Girl Scouts, Planned Parenthood, PLUB Pro-Life-Until-Birth, religion, religious extremists, Reproductive Health, Reproductive Rights, Republican politics, War on Women 10 CommentsI’m always amazed when politicians/public personas do or say something truly idiotic, catch flack for it in the press and/or the court of public opinion, and then apologize in a half-ass way
This is often referred to as: Making A Bad Situation Worse!
And so here comes the utterly pathetic apology of Bob Morris, Republican State Rep from Indiana, who went on a moral crusade against the Girl Scouts of America, charging they were a secretive arm of Planned Parenthood [automatically bad in Morris’s opinion] and as such were indoctrinating our daughters in the corrosive ideas of feminism, lesbianism and yes, even communism. Morris made these accusations in a ‘letter of concern,’ which he sent to fellow Indiana legislators. How could he know that his written opinion [the result of tireless web-based research by his own admission] would go public, putting him and his ravings on review?
The world is truly an unfair place!
No doubt the publicity proved problematic for Morris because he has now offered an apology. Of sorts. He’s willing to admit that his words were: emotional, reactionary and inflammatory. He did not mean to impugn those families active in Girl Scout organizations that are run in a responsible manner, those promoting leadership, community involvement and family values.
This flies in the face of earlier comments [Tuesday of this week] to a local radio station, where Morris said:
“The Girl Scouts of America don’t stand for anything. They let those girls do what they want in their troop meetings.”
How quickly these righteous warriors fold when exposed to the daylight. Now Morris says he should not have painted the Girl Scouts with “such a broad brush.”
“Had I known this letter would have gone to a wider audience, I would have cited further evidence for my position,” Morris wrote.
Let me play a little inside betting on this one: I’ll stake you 10:1 that had Morris known the letter would have gone public, he would never have written it. It’s easy to be a bully and nincompoop when you think the team is squarely on your side. It’s an altogether different scenario when you’re exposed for what you are: a religious reactionary with an axe to grind, in this case against anything or anyone connected to Planned Parenthood. And where would a Bob Morris get the sense that smearing the Girl Scouts and Planned Parenthood was A-okay?
From the rah-rah being given to the likes of Rick Santorum, whose recent ravings have been heralded ‘as sincere, steadfast.’ I’m sure the judges in Salem were viewed with the same sanguine eye.
Morris’s full apology can be found here.
But men like Morris just cannot help themselves. Yes, they want the public attention to go away but they just cannot or will not back down. Even in apology, Morris feels the need to challenge:On March 5, 2004, the Girl Scouts of the United States of America’s CEO, Kathy Cloninger, stated in an interview on the NBC Today Show that the Girl Scouts USA partners with Planned Parenthood with regard to sex education for Girl Scouts. To my knowledge, the Girl Scouts USA have not rescinded, corrected or denied that statement.
There you go. Sex education = sexualization. Why? Because we all know that ignorance is bliss. In fact, Rick Santorum disclosed to Mania Meister Glenn Beck that higher education is a dangerous thing, that the President’s plan to extend college educations to ever more students is a dark, nefarious plot:
On the president’s efforts to boost college attendance, Santorum said, “I understand why Barack Obama wants to send every kid to college, because of their indoctrination mills, absolutely … The indoctrination that is going on at the university level is a harm to our country.”
He claimed that “62 percent of kids who go into college with a faith commitment leave without it,” but declined to cite a source for the figure. And he floated the idea of requiring that universities that receive public funds have “intellectual diversity” on campus.
Yes sir, keep those kids down on the farm ‘cause, golly shucks, you give ‘em an education how you going to convince ‘em the earth is only 6000 years old or that cavemen saddled up the dinosaurs.
Why let scientific evidence stand in the way when magical thinking is so much more soothing. And ideologically correct.
Oprah has her own list about making ‘good’ apologies but here’s Peggysue’s suggestions for future mea culpas:
If you don’t mean it, don’t say it. This is a turn on the Thumper philosophy: If you don’t have anything good to say, don’t say anything at all.
Do not come kicking and screaming to an apology, regardless of what your pollsters say. Resistance shows and just makes you look like a bigger cockroach.
Do not state an additional challenge in an apology. Example: Okay, I got caught with my pettiness and religious right-wing bona fides showing but here: PROVE THIS WRONG.
The essence of any apology is humility. If you can’t manage humility and/or your acting abilities are subpar? Just hang it up. You are a cockroach and will likely remain a cockroach.
You can avoid apologies altogether by remaining in the shadows. There’s a reason cockroaches hang together in the dark. Because the light makes them vulnerable. In the light, the rest of us get to see what a nasty piece of work a cockroach really is.
Btw, here’s a factoid about the insect world: a cockroach can survive weeks without its head.
Color me positively unsurprised!















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